I like to review decisions I've made at various points in the past to determine whether I made the best decision. While I don't make many poor decisions, the decisions that I've made that are most questionable can often be attributed to me limiting my options or overemphasizing some criteria.
For example, when I was deciding on a university, I strictly limited my options by refusing to consider very large schools (such as the University of Texas) and I refused to consider anywhere very far away from home. While I still know I would prefer to attend a smaller school close to home and I don't think that I made a bad decision when I chose to attend Southern Methodist University, I wish that I would have given myself more options and prioritized my preferences differently.
For my first couple years of college I was completely convinced that I had chosen the right school. But, now I'm not entirely sure, I feel that maybe I could have made a better choice, though I don't know what that choice would've been, or whether it would actually be better. While I wouldn't say that I regret having chosen to go to SMU, there are a few things I don't like about SMU:
- The student body - there are a disproportionate number of fraternity/sorority members, image-obsessed people, and partiers.
- The expense - SMU is a nice place, but it's certainly overpriced. If I didn't have as much scholarship money, I'd be foolish to go here.
- The location - My attitude toward SMU's location is actually pretty ambivalent. Dallas is a really cool place, I like how I can step out of my room and walk to a bunch of different places, but I don’t like how Dallas is so pedestrian un-friendly and it’s too busy to invite me to drive around much.
While I briefly considered transferring, I’ll stay at SMU; I still think made a pretty good decision. However, in the future, I'll ultimately make better decisions if I keep my options open and not overemphasize any criteria.